Dr. Velma Talks: The Wisdom of Godly Dating

September 14, 2024 Episode—In this eleventh episode, we continue our journey by examining crucial components of preparing for godly relationships. From establishing a strong foundation with God to self-examination and growth, we cover significant ground to ensure that you are well-equipped for a fulfilling and holy union. Here are some key concepts I discussed:

The Foundation of a Godly Relationship

A vital part of any godly relationship is a solid foundation built on faith and trust in God's process. Your relationship with God must be the cornerstone, providing the wisdom and guidance necessary for your journey.

Self-Preparation and Examination

Before stepping into a relationship, it is imperative to prepare yourself and examine unresolved issues from your past.

I introduce the "Love is a Choice Workbook" as a valuable tool to uncover and address these lingering challenges, ensuring you are ready to honor God in your pursuit of a mate.

Speaking Life and Positivity

Words are powerful, and what you declare over your life can have a significant impact. During the episode, I emphasize the importance of speaking blessings and positivity rather than curses and negativity.

This conscious effort toward positive declarations can transform your outlook and experiences.

Recognizing and Avoiding the Wrong Catch

Through the stories in my "Catch" book series, I illustrate common pitfalls in the dating world. From misguided criteria to rushed decisions, these stories serve as cautionary tales to guide you in making wise, God-led choices.

Remember, not everyone who attends church is your ideal mate, and understanding the heart of a person is paramount.

Trusting God's Timing

A faithful journey means understanding that God's timing is perfect. Like Adam, who was unaware of his need for a partner while dutifully fulfilling his purpose, your focus should be on aligning with God's plan.

When the time is right, God will reveal your ideal mate. It's essential to remain patient and trust that God will lead you to the one He has chosen for you.

Engaging with the Community

I encourage you to watch the full episode to gain deeper insights into these concepts. Please leave your comments, share your thoughts, and let us know how these ideas resonate with you. Your engagement helps us grow and reach more people in need of guidance and inspiration.

For more information and to stay connected, visit my website at [drvelmabagby.com](http://drvelmabagby.com). There, you can find highlights from the episodes, send your comments or questions, and explore my book series available in bundles and individual formats.

Let us walk together on this path of godly dating, trusting God's wisdom, and honoring Him in all our relationships.