Dr. Velma Talks: Wisdom from My Own Journey

July 20, 2024 Episode— "If we wanted to put a term limit on information or wisdom, then we're putting ourselves in a bad place because the Word of God is over 2000 years old."

In this episode, I talked about the timeless wisdom found in the Bible and how it remains relevant today. I emphasized the importance of seeking guidance and understanding from God's word, which classifies those who ignore wisdom as fools.

The Catch Series and the Book of Fools

"I wanted to highlight something in book one, the Journey of the Catch series, which follows the relationship of a father, Pastor Grayson, and his daughter, Veronica."

I shared a snippet from my book series that showcases the impactful relationship between a father and daughter. Pastor Grayson imparts wisdom to his daughter Veronica, warning her against foolish behavior and relationships. This profound interaction is a cornerstone in understanding how wisdom and guidance can steer us away from potential pitfalls.

Recognizing Red Flags and Foolish Behavior

"Grayson describes red flags as capital R-E-D: retreat, extremely dangerous."

In our relationships, recognizing red flags is crucial. Pastor Grayson's explanation to his daughter about acknowledging these signs emphasizes the importance of not accepting unacceptable behavior. Whether in dating, business, or friendships, it's vital to be mindful of the people we surround ourselves with.

Applying Biblical Wisdom

"The Bible calls the person who rejects his father's instruction a fool and says in Proverbs 1:7b of the King James Version, fools despise or hate wisdom and instruction."

Using biblical references, I explained how the Scriptures guide us in identifying and steering clear of foolish behavior. The Bible's over 200 references to fools provide us with ample guidance on what to avoid.

Practical Insights and Self-Examination

"In the book, we also talk about the 40-day rule. The number 40 is the number for test and trial."

I provided practical advice for the dating process, such as the importance of a 40-day period to test and evaluate a potential mate. Examining one's own intentions and the heart of the other person is equally essential.

Marital Advice

For married couples, I shared how keeping God at the center of your relationship can foster growth together. Reflecting on the day's conversation, it’s essential to apply these insights to your marriage:

"Keep God at the forefront, be open to wisdom and instruction, and ensure that you're growing together with God at the center of it."

By adhering to these principles, couples can strengthen their bond and navigate their relationship with grace and understanding.

This episode of "Dr. Velma Talks" is packed with wisdom and practical advice for those on their journey to finding the right partner and those already in a committed relationship. I encourage you to listen to the full episode embedded below to gain more insights and to engage with the community by sharing your comments and questions.